Tag: Creativity

  • 10 Random Facts about Randomness

    10 Random Facts about Randomness

    This might sound strange coming from someone who is a born planner (See this post), but over the years I have developed a taste for leaving things to chance or opening the door for randomness.

    According to Merriam-Webster, the definition of “random” is:

    lacking a definite plan, purpose or pattern

    I am not alone.  Most of us over plan our lives and get upset when things veer off course.  Perhaps, randomness is unavoidable and should be enjoyed as a critical part of life.

    So here are 10 Random Facts about Randomness:

    1. Online dictionaries are using social media and its concepts. When you look up a word you can find the “popularity” of that word and you can share where you’ve “Seen and Heard” the word with other people through your Facebook account.  Try looking up “random”  at www.merriam-webster.com where you will find that “random” is in the bottom 40% of searches on its site.  Also, there are 7 Facebook comments about the word.                                                                                             

    2. Geek alert!  Random number generation is used for things like lottery winnings and slot machine payouts and simulating results for forecasting models in finance.  You can try it out yourself in Excel, using the RAND function. 
    3. The “random walk hypothesis“is a theory that stock prices cannot be predicted.  Think about that next time you pay a financial advisor or money manager.  See the chart below for the daily closing price for the Dow Jones Industrial Average.
    4. Randomness levels the playing field in leisure games, particularly games using dice.  People of different ages can have fun together without worrying about who is smarter or more clever.  Check out our family’s favorite game of chance, Farkle:
    5. “Fooled by Randomness is a book by Nassim Taleb, a professor, author and investor, who has dedicated his life to luck and randomness.  His theory is that humans are unaware of how much randomness there is in the world and that those who make money in the markets are just lucky, not insightful.

    6.  Random music moments can trigger nostalgia and/or make new memories.  In a world where everyone has an iPad, iPhone or other portable music player, we leave very little to chance when it comes to rocking out.  However, listening to the random radio can be a great way to hear songs you had forgotten about (The Proclaimers’ “500 miles”) and that trigger a memory to forgotten times (oh early ’90s…).

     The random radio is also good for introducing you to new songs or artists.  Isn’t that why we’re all singing Gotye’s “Somebody”…

    7.  Randomness creates more interesting stories.  Try recalling a great vacation.  Was it so wonderful because you did everything you planned to do?  Perhaps you remember taking an aimless stroll in an unfamiliar city or meeting another couple while getting rained out of your planned activity.  I remember all the times we got lost more than all the times we followed the directions exactly.

    8.  Play:children as randomness:adults.  The definition of play sounds awfully similar to random:  as a verb “to play” is to move freely or move aimlessly about.  As children, playtime is encouraged because it enables the child to develop creativity and imagination.  As adults, randomness may be the ticket to finding inspiration and creativity and, ultimately, to more productivity.

    9.  People who live random lives are also known as Bohemians, hipsters, slackers, spontaneous people or fun people.   I wonder if these random people ever get a kick out of brief moments of planning and organization like us planners get a kick out of randomness??

    10.  My mother used to have a notepad that said at the top, “If you want to make God laugh, make plans.”  So maybe when we experience the Joy of Randomness it’s not so random and part of a bigger plan…

    So whether you like it or not, randomness is everywhere.  Put the planner down and turn off the GPS for a bit.  You might as well embrace it and let life take its natural course…

  • “Backstory” – the perfect game for Memorial Day traveling

    “Backstory” – the perfect game for Memorial Day traveling

    Traveling for the long weekend?  Anticipate waiting in traffic or to board a plane?  Why not take a break from staring into your mobile device or tablet and find your entertainment in the actual world and try playing a game of “Backstory”.  It’s a game that requires no batteries and is appropriate for all ages.  You can play it by yourself or even better, with your family.

    We started playing “Backstory” when we were young and unmarried hanging out in NYC (mostly in restaurants and bars).  We were always on the lookout for celebrities, but often let down.  However, there were some fake-out moments.

    When we saw celebrity look-alikes, we deemed them “Fake (celebrity name)”.  For example, ultra-skinny, long-faced girl with girly hair was “Fake Sarah Jessica Parker” or middle-aged man who looked like a scraggly drunk with blond hair was “Fake Nick Nolte” – actually, I think that was just Gary Busey that time…

    Anyway, even in stylish NYC not everyone looks like a celebrity, so when we didn’t spot a celebrity or a fake celebrity, we wouldn’t let the fun end.  We came up with the “Backstory”for these ordinary folks, gave them names, developed a small plot line and in 5 or 10 minutes would create a story nearly as compelling as the average sitcom.

    You, too, can get in on the fun.  Why not try playing “Backstory” on this Memorial Day weekend?

    “Backstory” works like this:

    • Observe a stranger and then make them into a character complete with a “Backstory”.
    • Put a small plot line together that explains how they got here and where they’re going.
    • Determine whether they are married or single, fun or serious, in a good mood or a bad mood.
    • Speculate as to what kind of relationship that person has with the person or people they are with – are they lovers, friends, coworkers, etc?
    If you’re playing with others you can:
    •  Each take a turn adding an attribute to your character or
    •  Each take a person in a group and develop you characters separately then come up with the plot together

    It can be really fun, but there are some rules:

    1. Don’t stare for too long,that’s just creepy
    2. Don’t judge the people, this is not about stereotyping or critiquing another person’s clothing.
    3. Don’t tell the people that you were staring at them and making up a story….that game is called, “Stalker” and no one likes that game…
    For example, while on our Honeymoon in Tahiti, we found these two strangers:
    Pineapple Express Couple

    Together we decided that she was a woman named “Marjorie” who had been married to “Phil” for 35 years.  They lived in Canada and had a mutual love for all things fruity.  In fact, Phil was a well-known fruit distributor in their hometown.  They had saved a small portion of Phil’s bonus every year for the last 20 so they could take a fabulous trip with their family.  However, when their son, Tyler, got fired again for looking at dirty pictures at work, they decided to ditch the family, buy some fabulous resort clothing and fly first class to Tahiti.  So far, they were very pleased with their change in vacation plans.  Marjorie was looking forward to shopping for black pearls in the town square tomorrow.  Phil was looking forward to the nightly show at the hotel and watching those half-dressed Polynesian women shake it again…

    We may have broken rule # 2 in that particular “Backstory”….oops.  We couldn’t help ourselves…

    By the way, “Backstory” can also be an ongoing game. It can make an otherwise dull daily commute into a quick and fun little ride.  I see the same commuters everyday on my 40 minute train ride and actually know very few of them.  They have no idea that I know each one of their “Backstories”…

    It would be awesome to hear what kind of “Backstory” games you all come up with?  Please share!